May 6, 2014
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SHOW NOTES: In our HELP! SITUATION SPOTLIGHT™ series, we shine the light on challenges that community members have shared with me. This episode is, “How do I know if someone is really my friend?”
Ah, friendship. The bond that forms where we are safe to share our
secrets, fears and dreams. We take off our “masks” that we use
with the world (to protect us) and we share our authentic selves.
The bliss of spending time with a true friend is one of the best
parts of life.
Yet, what about the painful experience of letting our guard down,
sharing our authentic selves, trusting a person and then later
having to face the fact that we were deceived, tricked and
manipulated by the person we trusted? We
are broken as a person when our trust is broken. How may we ensure
that we have “real” friends in our lives while preventing being
hurt and made a fool of by “pretend” friends?
Q: How do I know if someone is really my friend?
A: The behavior of a friend is based on the foundation that your
happiness is their happiness. Any behavior to the contrary
indicates that they are not (yet or still) a
friend.
Insults, making fun of you, etc., these are all behaviors that
show you the person is not (at this time) your friend. Is it
possible that [...]
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