May 7, 2014
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SHOW NOTES: In our HELP! SITUATION SPOTLIGHT™ series, we shine the light on challenges that community members have shared with me. This episode is, “He hasn’t called! What does it mean?”
Silence. Often a craved for retreat from the noise and chaos of the
world. Yet, it can be a perceived enemy depriving us of an
opportunity to realize our deepest professional and personal
desires. When the phone doesn’t ring, what does it
mean?
The parallels between our personal and professional lives are
helpful and insightful at times. When
we are waiting for a call to let us know we have a job (or a second
interview) or that we have a second date, it can be stressful and
scary. Some people are tempted to turn their anxiety about “waiting
for an answer” inwards against themselves. They will criticize and
insult what they wore, what they said, how they looked, etc., and
begin to place the blame on themselves for the awful
silence.
Some people escalate the anxiety into inappropriate (or even
illegal) behavior and “follow-up” to “make sure” that their desires
are known. They send letters, emails, leave phone messages, send
text messages, post on social media, go to the office and even to
the home of the object of their desire. They think, “I want this
job/ date and they have to know how I
feel.” This
repeated behavior is inappropriate and may even lead to criminal
issues regarding stalking. They know how you feel.
Stop.
Why do people [...]
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